The 5th of September saw Richard and I once again return to Basildon Pride. Of all the pride parades, this one is particularly close to my heart. Not only because it’s a great event in its own right, but it is in my home county of Essex. But because this was the first Pride I ever went to, back in 2021, when I braved it alone. It’s also the reason why I ended up at Transliving that night and how Richard and I first started working together. So I’ll always try to make this one if at all possible.
We decided to do the parade again this year. Not just because I’m an attention-seeking tart, but because I believe that showing who we are, in a blaze of colour, music and celebration, is an important part of any pride.
With Richard before the parade
It may have started out as a protest, but it has evolved beyond that now, as it should. It is still a protest, and there is plenty that still needs to be done, including trying to regain our rights that seem to be being swept away by legal bullying from anti trans groups. But beyond the protest element, it is also a celebration of who we are. A chance to share queer culture. It is a call to people who hide away those parts of themselves, that it’s ok to stand out. And finally, it’s a chance to win over the hearts and minds of the local people. Sadly, the safety of any minority rests upon public opinion.
So Richard donned his rainbow military-esque jacket, trans cap, and rainbow coloured DM boots and took up his large ally flag. I was no less subtle in my outfit, sporting a black low-backed bodysuit over fishnets, red thigh-high stiletto boots, a red circus mistress coat and a black top hat. I was figuratively and literally waving the flag for trans people.
We were joined much later by our friend Annabelle, who travelled a long way to show her support too.
The afternoon was spent perusing the various stalls, where we spent a little too much, and enjoying the various acts on the stage. Afterwards, we headed to the after-party held in ‘The Loft’ at Basildon town centre to round out a fabulous day. With a bit of dinner and a quick outfit change in between.
On the dance floor at the afterparty at The Loft
Richard and Annabelle at the afterparty
The numbers were fewer this year, which is a shame. As I outlined above, it really is important to support these events, both for ourselves and the people who will follow.
I urge you all, if at all possible, to get down to at least one event during Pride season, even if you’re on your own. You’re sure to make friends, and it can lead you to new experiences. It did with me x
